Connection looks good on you

Your girls.
Your room.

A community built for women to find genuine friendships, celebrate one another, discover new experiences, and create opportunities together.

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Who we are

More than a community.
A place to belong.

XO The Girls Room brings women together through friendship, social experiences, meaningful conversations, and shared opportunities. We believe in women supporting women — whether that means making a new friend, showing up for a local business, or walking into an event knowing you belong.

Our mission is to make connection more accessible, confidence more contagious, and community something you can actually experience beyond a screen.

Find your people

There's room for you.

01 / CONNECT

Real friendships

Meet women who share your interests, want to explore, and believe in uplifting each other.

02 / DISCOVER

Community spaces

Connect over lifestyle, beauty, professional ambitions, local recommendations, and more.

03 / SHOW UP

In-person experiences

From intimate gatherings to exciting social events, turn online connections into real memories.

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See you there

Events & experiences

We bring our community together through curated social gatherings, celebrations, and collaborations. Follow our Instagram for current event details and RSVP announcements.

NOVEMBER 27, 2026

Thanksgiving Weekend Celebration

Hawthorn · San Francisco, California

Guest-list information and event updates shared through our community channels.

Event Updates
DECEMBER 5, 2026

Girls' Christmas PJ Night

Palo Alto, California · Community gathering

Details and attendance information available through the organizers.

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Let's create something together

Partnerships that bring people together.

We collaborate with brands, venues, event organizers, and women-led businesses to create experiences that benefit our community and our partners.

BRAND COLLABORATIONS

Reach & discovery

Introduce products, services, and experiences to an engaged community through thoughtfully aligned collaborations.

EVENT PARTNERSHIPS

Experiences together

Work with us on community gatherings, social events, activations, and guest experiences.

COMMUNITY SUPPORT

Women supporting women

Help spotlight women-owned businesses and create opportunities for meaningful local connections.

Discuss a Partnership

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Let's talk.

Interested in partnering, collaborating, or getting involved with XO The Girls Room? We'd love to hear from you.

Community & business inquiries

Reach out to us through our official Instagram account. Please include your name, organization (if applicable), and a little about your idea.

Instagram: @xothegirlsroom

Leadership: Nadia & Nicolle, Partners